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细心观察，抓住适当契机，用心开启学生心灵深处的真情————感恩教育
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align=center><B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN></SPAN></B><B><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">细心观察，抓住适当契机，用心开启学生心灵深处的真情————</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 15pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">感恩教育</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT size=3><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">起因：</SPAN></B><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">家长来访，告诉我一件令她伤心的事：儿子洗完脚后，让妈妈倒洗脚水，妈妈拒绝了并告诉他自己的事自己做。没想到孩子在倒水的过程中故意留了一点水，泼在妈妈的身上。</SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">着手教育：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 21.0pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><SPAN style="mso-list: Ignore"><FONT size=3>一、</FONT><SPAN style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">问卷调查</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT size=3><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">目的：</SPAN></B><SPAN lang=EN-US>1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、了解现在的独生子女对父母的关心度，以及父母对孩子的关心度。</SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT size=3><SPAN lang=EN-US><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </SPAN>2</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">、知晓孩子在孝敬长辈方面的表现。</SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">内容：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 18.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN style="mso-list: Ignore"><FONT size=3>1、</FONT><SPAN style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3>你知道父母的生日吗？他们是怎样庆祝自己的生日的？这一天，你为他们做什么？</FONT></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 18.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN style="mso-list: Ignore"><FONT size=3>2、</FONT><SPAN style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3>你的生日是怎么度过的？</FONT></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 18.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN style="mso-list: Ignore"><FONT size=3>3、</FONT><SPAN style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3>每天父母为你做了什么？你为父母做了什么？</FONT></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 18.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN style="mso-list: Ignore"><FONT size=3>4、</FONT><SPAN style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3>父母批评你时，你的态度怎样？</FONT></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 18.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN style="mso-list: Ignore"><FONT size=3>5、</FONT><SPAN style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3>平时做过令父母不开心的事吗？</FONT></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 18.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN style="mso-list: Ignore"><FONT size=3>6、</FONT><SPAN style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3>三月八日，你将为妈妈做件什么事？（怎样为她庆祝节日？）</FONT></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 18pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l1 level1 lfo2; tab-stops: list 18.0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN style="mso-list: Ignore"><FONT size=3>7、</FONT><SPAN style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3>孩子的成长道路中，什么事最令你担忧？令你快乐的事是什么？（此题由家长回答）</FONT></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">调查结果：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">调查汇总表一</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">父母（长辈）</SPAN></P></TD>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">孩子</SPAN></P></TD></TR>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">过生日</SPAN></P></TD>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">过一次</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">人、过两次</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>8</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">人、过三次</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>3</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">人、不过</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>13</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">人</SPAN></P></TD>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US>96%</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">（</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>24</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">人）</SPAN></P></TD></TR>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">为对方服务</SPAN></P></TD>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">天天</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US> 100%</SPAN></P></TD>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">平时几乎不（除休息日）</SPAN></P></TD></TR></TBODY></TABLE>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3>调查汇总表二</FONT></SPAN></P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">面对父母的批评</SPAN></P></TD>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US>60%</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">顶嘴（</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>15</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">人）</SPAN></P></TD></TR>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">不做让父母生气的事</SPAN></P></TD>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US>4%</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">（</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>1</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">人）</SPAN></P></TD></TR></TBODY></TABLE>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3>补充：最令家长担忧的是孩子的学习成绩和孩子独自在家。而令父母开心快乐的事莫过于孩子取得优异的成绩。</FONT></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">结果显示：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">经过调查，</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">父母每天从不同程度或多或少关心着孩子，默默为孩子服务而不求回报。而</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">班级</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">25</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">名同学，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">15</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">位同学面对家长的批评，表现顶嘴现象。且据家长反映，随着孩子年龄的增长，对家长的指责有抵触情绪，其中包括一些优秀生。个别学生还会对家长做恶作剧。这些现象的核心问题是独生子女在接受关爱的同时不懂感激与回报，</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">不懂得心疼父母、不懂孝顺老人、不懂关爱家人。为此要加强这方面的教育。</SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 21pt; TEXT-INDENT: -21pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 21.0pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><SPAN style="mso-list: Ignore"><FONT size=3>二、</FONT><SPAN style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">实施感恩系列教育</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">（一）、一份特别的礼物：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3>正逢“三八妇女”节，我布置了一项特别的作业：请每位学生在这一天为你的妈妈洗一次脚，作为礼物送给妈妈。请妈妈们背着孩子将感受录在录音带里交给老师。</FONT></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">（二）、一堂“感谢父母”主题班会课：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12.75pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><FONT size=3><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">主题的确立：</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">问卷调查所显示的问题，让我想到“感恩”是我们中华民族具有优良的传统。教育学生学会感恩，感恩生活，感恩父母，感恩老师，感恩自然，感谢一切给予过自己帮助的人，是学生和谐成长的需要。成功学家安东尼指出：成功的第一步就是先存有一颗感激之心，时时对自己的现状心存感激，同时也要对别人为你所做的一切怀有敬意和感激之情。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">苏霍姆林斯基则认为：如果一个孩子连生他养他育他的妈妈也不爱，还能指望他爱别人、爱家乡、爱祖国吗</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">?</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">父母赋予我们生命，只有懂得感恩父母的人，才会感恩周围一切，感恩社会，回报社会。因此，我的班会课主题：感恩系列教育之一——感谢父母。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">目的</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">使学生理解父母之爱，感悟父母之爱，学会感恩。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">使学生懂得感谢，愿意感激，学会感动，学会感恩，使其怀着感恩之心生活，感谢父母和家人。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">激发学生的亲情意识，由己及人，培养对亲人，对他人，进而对祖国感恩之情。<SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><FONT size=3><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">实施的教育环节及达到的目标：</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 19.5pt; TEXT-INDENT: -19.5pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list 19.5pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><SPAN style="mso-list: Ignore"><FONT size=3>一、</FONT><SPAN style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">听父母讲孩子的成长经历，感受父母之爱。让学生在聆听家长叙述养育孩子的过程中体会、感受父母养育孩子的辛苦，懂得珍惜这份伟大而无私的爱。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 19.5pt; TEXT-INDENT: -19.5pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list 19.5pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><SPAN style="mso-list: Ignore"><FONT size=3>二、</FONT><SPAN style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">走进生活，感悟生活中父母无微不至的爱。由听故事《妈妈喜欢吃鱼头》到说说生活中父母关爱中最令你感动的事。让学生在回忆和述说中再一次体会父母之爱无微不至，无处不在的。（事先我让学生回忆成长过程中父母为你做过的一件令你感动的事。）</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 19.5pt; TEXT-INDENT: -19.5pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list 19.5pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><SPAN style="mso-list: Ignore"><FONT size=3>三、</FONT><SPAN style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">行动示爱，体验父母之爱不求回报。“三八”妇女节的特别礼物就是给自己的妈妈洗一次脚，让学生在课堂上说说行动感受，同时播放学生母亲接受这礼物后的感受，倾听母亲感动的话语，让学生用心体验每天为他们付出太多的父母，偶尔得到孩子的关爱已是感动不已。可见父母之爱是不求回报的。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt 19.5pt; TEXT-INDENT: -19.5pt; mso-list: l2 level1 lfo3; tab-stops: list 19.5pt"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><SPAN style="mso-list: Ignore"><FONT size=3>四、</FONT><SPAN style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'"> </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">联系自己，行动感悟，学会感激，学会感恩。通过妈妈的话，生活经历的回顾，再与平时自己言行的比较，（出示问卷调查汇总表）让学生对自己以往的行为进行反思，此时此刻让学生对父母说说心里话。使其正确意识到作为子女应该如何在行动中回报父母的关爱。在接受爱的同时，学会感激和感谢。明白</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">“滴水之恩，涌泉相报”；</SPAN><SPAN style="mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"> </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">明白一个人会因感恩而感到快乐，一颗感恩的心，就是一个和平的种子，感恩是人与人之间的和谐因子。“谁言寸草心，报得三春晖”。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">只有</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">从小</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">懂得感恩父母的人，才会感恩周围一切，感恩社会，回报社会。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">希望学生有一颗善良、博大、宽厚的爱心，因为只有学会无私真爱的人才会散发出永恒持久的魅力，才能获得最大的成功。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">（三）、一封感谢父母的信——与父母心灵沟通</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">为验证主题班会课的教育效果，在课后布置学生给父母写一份感恩的信，通过心与心交流，感谢父母这些年的辛苦养育，并请家长读信后予以回复，组织在下次班会课上交流。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">学生的反应及教育效果：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3>在主题班会上，学生一次次的感动。首先是当学生听到自己妈妈用情谈着自己为妈妈洗脚的感受时，感动地落泪了。因为在录音里，每位妈妈都提到孩子的这一举动感动了她们，都表示这是一个意想不到的惊喜，孩子这一小小举动让家长看到孩子长大了，懂得体会父母的辛苦，懂得感恩与汇报。其次是班会课最后一个环节，学生将自己以往对父母的行为与父母平时对自己的无微不至的照顾比较反思后，让他们此时说出最想对父母说的话时，他们又一次落泪了。特别是几个平时调皮捣蛋的、个性倔强的外地生，尤其当他们说道：父母为了让他们在上海读书，花了不少心思，非常的不容易时，内心的感动再次涌动。</FONT></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3>从学生一封封满怀对父母感激之情的感恩信中，我知道，这次教育活动的的确确让学生体验到父母的关爱是无私而伟大的。有位学生写道：“我不费力气的帮妈妈洗一次脚，妈妈就如此感动，这与爸爸、妈妈平时对我的照顾相比不是九牛一毛吗？”而在父母读信后的感受中，几位家长都真诚对自己的孩子作了一次近距离的交流，这是一次心与心的交流，尤其是孩子敞开心扉将心中的委屈倾吐后，父母能放下架子，坦言在教育孩子问题上，父母有时也有些固执，方法不一定是最好的，希望孩子能体谅。</FONT></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3>原先这位将洗脚水泼在妈妈身上的学生，尽管在整个教育过程中，我没有提及此事，可就在班会课上播放他妈妈在享受他给母亲洗脚的感受时和妈妈对他寄予的希望时，他低下了头，当我请他对自己的父母说说心里话时，他小声说道：“妈妈，我平时很不懂事，我要对您说声对不起，今后，我会努力改的。”此时或许只有我能体会他这一瞬间的愧疚。我相信这个“小皇帝”这一刻在成长。</FONT></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">教育反思与活动延续：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></B></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3>这次活动让我明白：其实孩子之所以对父母表现不敬，原因之一是来之于家庭教育重心的失衡。许多家长在孩子成长过程中一味注重的是孩子的学习成绩。（从上述问卷调查中也显示了这一点。）家长认为，孩子学习上去就可以了，生活上做父母的多担待算不了什么，就是这种想法，让孩子漠视生活的艰辛和父母的辛苦，久而久之觉得接受照顾是理所应当的。因此家长在教育孩子的问题上不可忽视我们的传统美德教育，这些美德是做人之根本。</FONT></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3>其次，孩子的心灵是纯洁与美好的，心存善良是人的本性。因为这样，所以老师的教育会见到一定的效果，这也提醒我们这些大人，平时注重正确引导孩子，关注孩子每一步的成长，发现问题及时纠正，晓知以理，动之以情。相信他们，给他们独立做事的机会，从而提高他们的处事能力和判断是非的能力。</FONT></SPAN></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><FONT size=3><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">“感谢父母”只是感恩教育的开始，其实，生活中值得感谢的人和物太多太多——</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.5pt">感谢老师的教育和所有帮助支持过我们的亲人朋友、还有昔日里素不相识的人；感谢在寂寞时有音乐陪伴，有朋友可以倾诉；感谢大自然给予我们阳光、鲜花和美的享受……只有怀着爱的情感、爱的眼光看世界的人和物，才会发现美、感受美。</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">在今后的教育中，我还会以“感谢朋友”、“感谢老师”、“感谢大自然”……为教育主题将感恩教育进行到底。</SPAN></FONT></P>
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